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From the Streets to Green Spaces…

Posted on by Marc Ford

By Marc Ford MBA, Marketing & Digital Content Creator

 

If you’d told me a few years ago that a trip to a botanical garden could be life-changing, I probably would’ve nodded politely while internally rolling my eyes. But then I read an article about a former homeless man who found refuge and purpose at Kew Gardens after battling homelessness and addiction – and suddenly, it didn’t seem so far-fetched.

The piece, published in The Guardian, tells the story of someone who, after years of instability, discovered that tending to plants and immersing himself in nature gave him a sense of structure, stability, and self-worth. The rhythm of the seasons, the quiet labour of gardening, the simple act of nurturing something and watching it grow – all of it became a catalyst for change.

And honestly? That struck a chord. Because at YMCA Leicestershire, we see the same thing happening through our Roots to Resilience project.

Nature as a Lifeline

At its core, Roots to Resilience is a simple idea: give young people experiencing homelessness or mental health challenges the chance to connect with nature, develop skills, and rebuild confidence. We know that when life feels like an endless series of closed doors, something as simple as growing a tomato plant or digging a garden bed can be an unexpected source of empowerment.

Sounds too easy, right? But the evidence is overwhelming. Studies show that spending time in green spaces can lower stress levels, improve mental health, and even reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression. And when you’re a young person who’s been told “no” more times than you can count – no stable home, no job, no support network – being able to plant something and see it flourish is a quiet, but powerful, reminder that change is possible.

More Than Just a Patch of Dirt

For us, Roots to Resilience is about more than just planting a few flowers and calling it a day. It’s about giving young people the space to grow – literally and figuratively. It’s about offering structure, community, and a reason to get up in the morning. It’s about showing that life can move forward, even when everything feels stuck.

One of our young people recently put it better than I ever could:

“I never thought I’d care about plants. But when I saw something I planted actually growing, it felt like I was growing too.”

Now, I’m not saying that a garden alone can solve the youth homelessness crisis (if only it were that simple). But what I am saying is that we need more spaces where young people can heal, rebuild, and find purpose. Places where they can breathe – in every sense of the word.

So, whether it’s Kew Gardens, a YMCA project, or just a local community garden, let’s stop underestimating the power of nature to transform lives. Because sometimes, the smallest seed can grow into something pretty incredible.

If you want to support Roots to Resilience, get in touch. Because every young person deserves the chance to grow. 🌱

To find out more about our work: www.ymcaleics.org.uk

Abandoned & Forgotten: The Broken System Failing Our Young People

Posted on by Marc Ford

By Marc Ford MBA, Marketing & Digital Content Creator

 

Working at YMCA Leicestershire, I see first-hand the difference proper support can make in a young person’s life. But I also see what happens when that support isn’t there – when services buckle under pressure, and young people are left with nowhere to turn. This week, two major discussions have taken centre stage: the crisis in support services and the rise of innovative collaborations trying to patch the gaps. Let’s talk about both.

Support Services: The System is Failing Young People

A young person facing homelessness needs more than just a roof over their head -they need stability, guidance, and a real chance to rebuild. Unfortunately, across the UK, services meant to provide this are at breaking point.

Reports have surfaced that councils are failing to take homeless young people into care, instead placing them in unsuitable temporary accommodation. It’s a problem we see too often: a young person turns up at their local authority, seeking help, only to be handed the keys to a B&B room – isolated, unsupported, and completely unequipped for independent living. Worse are the councils that bound up in their own over prescriptive, sometimes in-decipherable bureaucracy, can’t place them full stop.

The Guardian recently highlighted this crisis, reporting that councils are “routinely ignoring their legal duty to house vulnerable young people,” leaving them at risk of exploitation, mental health struggles, and prolonged homelessness. The reality? Some of these young people end up back on the streets. Others drift between unstable housing situations, never getting the consistent support they need to break the cycle.

Even emergency shelters are struggling. In some areas, youth shelters are turning people away because they simply don’t have enough space. A recent report described the situation as “a source of national shame,” with rising numbers of rough sleepers and an overwhelmed system unable to cope.

Here at YMCA Leicestershire, we do everything we can to help young people before they reach this crisis point. But we need a system that works with us, not against us. We need councils to step up, to fulfil their legal obligations, and to recognise that a young person’s safety and future should never be an afterthought.

New Solutions: Cambridge Colleges & Local Innovations

Of course, where the system falls short, innovation steps in. Across the UK, organisations and communities are finding creative ways to fill the gaps.

One of the most exciting recent developments comes from Cambridge University, where two of its colleges have launched an initiative to support young people facing homelessness. Their goal? To give young people the tools to build a better future—not just by providing housing but by offering mentorship, education opportunities, and long-term support. This isn’t just about keeping young people off the streets; it’s about giving them the foundation to thrive.

Closer to home, similar schemes are emerging. In Droitwich, a new support programme has launched following successful trials in Evesham. The project is focused on young people aged 16 to 24, offering tailored support to help them find stable housing, secure employment, and develop life skills. It’s a simple concept but an effective one – meeting young people where they are and giving them the tools to move forward.

So, What Needs to Happen?

While these initiatives are inspiring, they shouldn’t be the exception – they should be the standard. The reality is that these kinds of programmes rely on funding, collaboration, and – crucially – a shift in mindset from those in power, willingly or not.

We shouldn’t have to rely on universities and local projects to do the job councils should be doing. We need systemic change – better funding for youth homelessness services, proper support for care leavers, and a legal framework that actually protects vulnerable young people rather than abandoning them to fend for themselves.

At YMCA Leicestershire, we’ll continue to fight for that change. But we also need you – the public, policymakers, and organisations – to stand with us. Support your local services. Challenge your councils. Advocate for real solutions. Because no young person should ever have to navigate homelessness alone.

The system is broken, but together, we can fix it.

To find out more about our work: www.ymcaleics.org.uk

Why Local Councils Are Failing Homeless Young People

Posted on by Marc Ford

By Marc Ford MBA, Marketing & Digital Content Creator

 

This past weekend, a sobering article in The Guardian raised alarm bells about how local councils are failing to take homeless 16 and 17-year-olds into care. Many young people in this age group are being left in unsafe, temporary housing arrangements, with little to no support to help them rebuild their lives. And let’s be clear: this isn’t just a problem confined to the big cities – it’s one we see right here in Leicester and across Leicestershire.

As the report pointed out, local authorities often skirt their duty under the law to offer young people the safety and security they need when they face homelessness. According to the Children’s Society, a charity that works to combat youth homelessness, too many councils are either not offering suitable accommodations or pushing youths into unsuitable living conditions that do more harm than good.

Let’s break this down: when a young person under 18 experiences homelessness, it’s not just about finding a roof over their head. It’s about the comprehensive care that comes with it – the emotional, psychological, and physical support to help them thrive. But in many cases, councils are simply placing these vulnerable teens in emergency hostels, hotel rooms or even on the streets. And without a consistent, supportive environment, how on earth can they ever begin to break the ‘cycle’?

Leicestershire is no stranger to these struggles. Our local services, including those at YMCA Leicestershire, are deeply invested in giving young people a second chance – offering more than just a place to sleep, but a safe space where they can receive the care, guidance, and support that they deserve. Our services span not just homelessness support, but also employment training, emotional well-being initiatives, and access to long-term housing, despite the challenges the latter is proving to be.

We see first-hand what can happen when young people are left to navigate homelessness alone. Many arrive at our doors already carrying the weight of trauma – broken homes, struggles with mental health, and deep feelings of isolation and loneliness. The work we aim to do isn’t just about meeting basic needs. It’s about offering a sense of belonging, a sense that no one is beyond help. And that’s something local authorities should be stepping up to provide as well.

We need to start seeing young people as people – fully deserving of safe, permanent homes. It’s time for councils to step up and meet their responsibilities. It’s crucial that we have a system that puts the young person at the centre, not just their immediate housing needs.

In our day-to-day work at YMCA Leicestershire, we’re pushing back against the stigma and challenges that come with being young and homeless. We are always reminded that the young people that we see are not homeless youths; they are just young people experiencing homelessness. Nothing is permanent, but it’s a constant fight. If local authorities aren’t stepping up to their responsibilities, the work we do becomes even more urgent – and increasingly more difficult.

When we hear about councils failing to provide care for vulnerable young people, it’s not just a headline. It’s a call to action. Local authorities need to recognise that youth homelessness is not a simple crisis of a bed and a meal; it’s a systemic issue that requires long-term, holistic solutions. Young people deserve better than to be left to fend for themselves, to be pushed aside into temporary, unsafe living situations.

So, what’s the answer? More collaboration, more funding, (yes, I know, everyone says that) and above all, a shift in perspective and an actual plan. We can’t keep treating homelessness and youth homelessness as a footnote in the housing crisis. These are the young people who will shape the future, but only if we offer them the tools, resources, and support to do so.

We must all be part of this change – from local councils to community organisations like YMCA Leicestershire, to each and every one of us who can play a role in supporting the future of our young people. It’s time to make sure no young person is left to face homelessness alone. The stakes are simply too high.

The Youth Funding Crisis On OUR Doorstep

Posted on by Marc Ford

It’s no secret that youth services in Leicestershire have been facing some serious challenges. With funding cuts hitting hard, the impact isn’t just being felt by young people – it’s affecting entire communities. At YMCA Leicestershire, just like our colleagues at YMCA England and Wales, we’re deeply concerned about where this is heading and what it means for the future of our region.

The Current Landscape

Youth services across Leicestershire have been struggling with financial constraints that make it harder to offer the support that young people need. A report by Leicestershire Cares reveals that 40% of children in Leicester city are living in poverty – and many of them come from working families. In the wider county, child poverty rates sit between 10% and 20%. These aren’t just numbers; they represent real young people who need safe spaces, guidance, and opportunities to build a better future. (Leicestershire Cares)

And the financial pressures don’t stop there. Leicester City Council is teetering on the brink of declaring bankruptcy, which will inevitably mean cuts to vital services. County and district councils are also having to make tough decisions, and unfortunately, young people are often the ones who lose out the most. (Leicestershire Cares)

The Impact on Youth Services

When funding gets cut, it’s young people who feel the brunt of it. Youth centres are closing, mental health support is dwindling, and opportunities for education, recreation, and mentorship are becoming harder to access. These services aren’t just ‘nice-to-haves’ – they’re essential for helping young people grow into confident, resilient adults.

The Youth Justice Plan for 2023-2026 makes it clear how crucial early intervention is for at-risk youth. But without the right funding – and with councils already struggling financially – putting these plans into action is becoming more and more difficult. That means too many young people are left without the support they need to navigate life’s challenges. (Leicestershire County Council)

A Call to Action

This crisis isn’t something we can just sit back and watch unfold. At YMCA Leicestershire, we’re standing alongside national voices calling for urgent action to turn things around. Investing in young people isn’t just about doing the right thing – it’s about creating a future where they can contribute positively to their communities, workplaces, and society as a whole.

We’re calling on local authorities, businesses, and community members to step up and recognize just how important youth services are. If we work together to find sustainable solutions, we can ensure that every young person in Leicestershire has the support they need to thrive.

The Bottom Line

This funding crisis is happening right here, right now. The future of our community depends on the choices we make today. At YMCA Leicestershire, we’re committed to standing up for young people – but we can’t do it alone. It’s time for everyone to play their part in tackling this crisis and securing a brighter future for the next generation.

 

Youth Homelessness in the UK: Shining a Light on a Hidden Crisis

Posted on by Marc Ford

If you take a stroll through most UK cities and towns in 2025, you’ll notice some vibrant shopfronts, cafes buzzing with indistinct chatter, and streets teeming with all human life, depending on what day of the week it is. What you might not notice, however, is the growing number of young people with no place to call home. Youth homelessness is not just a statistic or a policy issue; it’s an invisible crisis affecting thousands across England and Wales and on it’s current trajectory, will become very visible.

The Alarming Numbers

The latest national figures suggest that over 120,000 young people aged 16-24 in the UK experienced homelessness or were at risk of it last year. And these numbers don’t include the countless others who sofa-surf, doubling up with friends or relatives, hiding their struggle from a public view. Hidden homelessness is just that – hidden – and its very nature makes it easy for society to overlook or simply forget about.

Why is Youth Homelessness Rising?

The causes of youth homelessness are as complex as the young people affected. Here are some key reasons:

  1. Family Breakdown: For many, home isn’t a sanctuary. Family conflict, domestic abuse, and estrangement are leading reasons why young people leave home prematurely.

  2. Economic Pressures: With soaring private rents, little-to-no social stock, and a cost-of-living crisis gripping the UK, affordable housing is out of reach for many. A 20-year-olds minimum wage can’t compete with the rising prices, leaving more young people vulnerable to eviction and housing instability.

  3. Care Leavers: Young people exiting the care system often face additional hurdles. Despite government support programs, transitioning to independent living without a robust safety net leaves many at risk and going back to square one.

  4. Mental Health Challenges: The pandemic’s impact on mental health continues to reverberate. Anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues can push young people into precarious living situations when combined with inadequate support systems.

Stories That Stick

Sarah, 19, grew up in Leicester and became homeless after clashing with her stepfather. “It wasn’t safe to stay,” she says. “But leaving meant sleeping in the park some nights and couch-hopping others. It felt like nobody cared.” Sarah’s story is far from unique, it’s one we hear regularly, and it underscores the urgent need for action.

YMCA’s Role: Fighting Back Against the Tide

At YMCA Leicestershire, we believe every young person deserves a safe place to sleep, the opportunity to dream big, and the support to make those dreams a reality. Here’s how we’re tackling youth homelessness head-on:

  1. Providing Emergency Accommodation: Across the country, YMCA offers emergency housing support to young people like Sarah, aiming to ensure they have a roof over their heads and a chance to stabilise their lives.

  2. Long-term Housing Solutions: Our supported housing projects help young people transition to independence, providing not just a place to live but also life skills training, education, and employment support.

  3. Advocacy and Awareness: Youth homelessness is thriving in the shadows, just as many big societal problems have in the past and we’re committed to bringing it into the light. We aim to shift public attitudes and push for policy changes that prioritise young people’s needs and the chance for a self-sustaining and brighter future.

  4. Holistic Support: We know that housing alone isn’t enough. From mental health services to mentoring programs, YMCA aims to continue to provide tailored support to address the root causes of homelessness.

A Call to Action

As we navigate 2025, the challenge of youth homelessness demands more than temporary fixes. It requires systemic change, community involvement, and a commitment to never look away. We urge policymakers, businesses, and individuals to join us in this fight. Because behind every statistic is a young person with hopes, dreams, and untapped potential.

Final Thoughts

Youth homelessness might be a hidden problem, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. Together, we can ensure young people across England and Wales find not just housing, but belonging, hope, and opportunity. As Sarah put it, “YMCA didn’t just give me a bed; they gave me my life back.” Let’s make that the story for every young person facing homelessness today.

From Homeless to Hope: How Nature & Community Transforms Lives

Posted on by Marc Ford

In a world bustling with concrete jungles and more and more digital distractions, the transformative power of nature therapy and community support can shine a hopeful light on young adults grappling with trauma, homelessness, and feelings of isolation. Green spaces offer some sanctuary, a place where the troubled mind can find solace, and where youth empowerment takes root in that fertile ground of mental health and trauma recovery. By weaving the threads of community engagement and social inclusion, we can create a tapestry of homelessness solutions that not only uplift young individuals but also enrich the entire community around them. In this exploration, we’ll uncover how these natural havens and collective efforts nurture wellbeing, inspiring laughter, hope, and a renewed sense of belonging. Join us as we journey through the verdant paths of nature therapy and the heart warming embrace of community support, illustrating how together, we can transform lives.

Healing Power of Green Spaces

Transformative Nature Therapy

Nature therapy offers a rejuvenating escape from the chaos of urban life, providing a sanctuary for young adults facing trauma and homelessness. Spending time in green spaces can significantly boost mental health, promoting feelings of peace and relaxation. We all know it and these natural environments act as a catalyst for trauma recovery by encouraging introspection and emotional healing. Young people who engage with nature are often empowered to find new perspectives on their challenges, fostering a sense of belonging and purpose. Programs focused on nature therapy often incorporate activities like gardening, hiking, or simply spending time in parks and quiet gardens, which can lead to improved wellbeing and resilience. By immersing in the tranquility of nature, individuals can experience a reduction in stress and anxiety, setting the stage for long-term recovery and empowerment. Community support and social inclusion further enhance the impact of these experiences, creating a network of care and understanding.

Youth Empowerment Through Nature

Green spaces play a pivotal role in youth empowerment, offering young adults a platform to rebuild confidence and gain new skills. Engaging with nature encourages autonomy and decision-making, vital components of personal growth and self-esteem. Activities such as community gardening or conservation projects not only foster a sense of responsibility but also promote social inclusion, as they often require teamwork and collaboration. These experiences can bridge gaps between diverse groups, fostering community engagement and understanding. As young people connect with nature, they’re also more likely to develop an appreciation for their environment, instilling a sense of stewardship and care for the planet. This empowerment extends beyond the individual, inspiring community-wide initiatives that address homelessness solutions and promote mental health. By nurturing leadership skills and resilience, nature empowers youth to contribute meaningfully to their communities, paving the way for a brighter, more inclusive future.

Mental Health and Wellbeing

The impact of green spaces on mental health and wellbeing is profound, offering a natural refuge that promotes healing and relaxation. For young adults dealing with the aftermath of trauma or the instability of homelessness, these spaces provide a much-needed respite from the pressures of daily life. The calming effect of nature can lead to reduced symptoms of anxiety and depression, creating a foundation for lasting trauma recovery. Regular exposure to natural environments has been shown to enhance mood, increase feelings of happiness, and improve overall life satisfaction. Additionally, these spaces encourage physical activity, which is closely linked to improved mental health outcomes. Community support initiatives that incorporate nature therapy can create a supportive network that bolsters individuals’ efforts to achieve mental wellness. By integrating nature into daily routines, young people can cultivate a balanced, healthier lifestyle that nurtures their mental resilience and enhances their overall sense of wellbeing.

Community Support and Social Inclusion

Trauma Recovery and Community Engagement

Trauma recovery is often a challenging journey, but community support and engagement can make a significant difference. By fostering environments that encourage social inclusion, communities can create safe spaces where individuals feel valued and understood. These supportive networks provide the foundation for emotional healing, helping young adults rebuild their lives after experiencing trauma or homelessness. Activities that promote community engagement, such as group workshops or volunteering, offer individuals a sense of purpose and connection. As participants collaborate on shared goals, they develop a network of allies who understand their struggles and celebrate their progress. This sense of belonging is crucial for overcoming feelings of isolation and despair. Moreover, engaged communities are more likely to develop effective homelessness solutions, addressing the root causes of vulnerability. By nurturing an inclusive atmosphere, we can empower individuals to take charge of their recovery, contributing to the overall health and vitality of their community.

Homelessness Solutions through Support Networks

Support networks are crucial in developing effective homelessness solutions, offering a lifeline to individuals in need. (We should know…we’ve been around 130 odd years doing it!) These networks provide more than just immediate relief; they create pathways for long-term stability and empowerment. By connecting young adults with resources such as housing assistance, job training, and mental health services, support networks address the multi-faceted challenges of homelessness. Community engagement plays a vital role, as local organizations and volunteers come together to offer guidance, mentorship, and friendship. This collective effort helps individuals build resilience and regain confidence, essential components in overcoming adversity. Social inclusion initiatives further bolster these efforts by fostering environments where everyone feels welcome and valued. By working collaboratively, communities can devise innovative solutions tailored to their unique challenges, helping to break the cycle of homelessness. Through these compassionate and coordinated efforts, support networks transform lives, providing hope and a sense of belonging for those seeking a fresh start.

Strengthening Bonds and Building Hope

Building strong community bonds is essential for fostering hope and resilience among individuals facing homelessness and trauma. By creating opportunities for social inclusion, communities can help individuals form meaningful connections that offer emotional support and encouragement. Activities such as community events, shared meals, and group projects bring people together, breaking down barriers and promoting understanding. These interactions build trust and camaraderie, essential elements for healing and personal growth. As individuals experience a sense of belonging, they are more likely to engage with and contribute to their community, further strengthening these bonds. This collective sense of purpose not only uplifts individuals but also enriches the community as a whole. By focusing on inclusivity and support, communities can inspire hope and create a nurturing environment where everyone has the opportunity to thrive. In this way, community support becomes a powerful tool for transformation, helping individuals to overcome obstacles and envision a brighter future.

If you feel in any way, that you could donate to our own ‘Roots to Resilience’ Project, taking a piece of waste land and making it into an inspiring garden then follow the link here: ymcaleics.org.uk/the-big-give

 

Coffee & Powers of Connection: How Human Bonds Can Change Lives

Posted on by Marc Ford

Welcome to UK Coffee Week, a time to celebrate our love for a good cup of coffee and, more importantly, the connections that come with it. At YMCA Leicestershire, we’ve seen first-hand how something as simple as a chat over a hot brew can spark support, understanding, opportunities  and community.

Just like a fresh coffee, we believe in being a warm, comforting presence for those who need us, when they need us. Our mission is to support young people, families, and individuals in Leicestershire, offering services like housing, training, and emotional support. But what ties all of these together? Meaningful connections – those moments where people feel truly heard and seen, much like the simple joy of sitting down for a coffee with a friend.

In a world that often feels more disconnected, disjointed and chaotic than ever, the power of human connection remains one of the most profound forces for change. At YMCA Leicestershire, we see first-hand how genuine relationships can transform lives – creating ripples of support, empowerment, and hope in our community.

But what exactly makes connection so powerful?

Connection Brings Comfort and Belonging

One of our deepest needs as humans is to feel like we belong, to be part of a community where we are accepted and understood. When someone feels isolated – whether through hardship, mental health struggles, or simply the challenges of life – the act of reaching out can be life-changing. A single meaningful interaction can provide a sense of comfort, reminding someone they’re not alone in their journey.

At YMCA Leicestershire, we are witnessing this every day. When a young person feeling unsure about their future they may find confidence through a mentor who listens. The family facing hard times might feel hope again after receiving the right support. These connections create a sense of safety and belonging, a foundation from which people can begin to rebuild their lives.

Connection Inspires Growth

It’s been proven over and over again, that we grow through our relationships with others. When we connect, we exchange ideas, broaden our perspectives, and gain access to new opportunities. For young people in particular, having someone who believes in them – a mentor, a coach, a friend – can be the key to unlocking their potential.

The impact of these connections is often long-lasting. At YMCA Leicestershire, we offer programs that create these moments of connection, where young people can build confidence, learn life skills, and take steps toward brighter futures. Through the power of human connection, we see people discover their strengths and break through barriers that once seemed insurmountable.

Connection Builds Resilience

Life throws many challenges our way, and it’s our connections with others that often help us weather the storm. A support network provides not only practical help but emotional strength. Whether it’s a kind word, a helping hand, or just knowing someone is there, human connections reinforce our resilience.

We’ve seen young people who, after experiencing homelessness or family breakdown, have found stability and hope through the relationships they’ve built with our staff, volunteers, and fellow residents. These bonds are what give them the strength to keep on going, even in the face of adversity.

Connection Heal

Sometimes, what we need most is just to be heard. Human connection allows people to heal – emotionally, mentally, and even physically. A strong support system can reduce stress, improve mental health, and contribute to overall well-being. For individuals who have faced trauma, hardship, or loss, finding someone to share their experiences with can be the first step toward recovery.

At YMCA Leicestershire, we provide spaces where healing connections can happen, whether through counselling, peer support, or simply creating an environment where people feel safe to be themselves. These moments of connection become the foundation for healing and transformation.

Connection Creates a Stronger Community

When people come together, they create a web of support that extends far beyond individual relationships. Connection strengthens communities, fostering a sense of collective responsibility and care. When we are connected, we are more likely to look out for one another, creating a ripple effect of kindness and compassion that touches many lives.

At YMCA Leicestershire, we believe in the power of community. Every connection made, every life touched, contributes to a more supportive, inclusive Leicestershire where everyone has the opportunity to thrive.

The Ripple Effect of Connection

The beauty of connection is that it doesn’t just change one life it can change many. When we make time for others, whether through a simple conversation or offering more structured support, we contribute to a cycle of positivity that lifts individuals, families, and entire communities.

At YMCA Leicestershire, we see the ripple effect of these connections every day. From young people finding their footing after a challenging time, to individuals gaining the confidence to pursue their dreams, human connection fuels transformation.

So, whether it’s reaching out to a friend, volunteering your time, or simply taking a moment to listen, remember: the power of connection is immense. Together, we can change lives, one connection at a time.

So, as you sip your coffee this week, think about how you can connect with those around you. Maybe it’s checking in on a neighbour, catching up with a friend, or simply taking a moment to listen, remember: the power of connection is immense. Just like coffee, these little actions warm our hearts and keep us going. So, why not celebrate UK Coffee Week by making time for these small but powerful moments? Together, we can create a Leicestershire where everyone feels valued and supported – one cup, one conversation, and one connection at a time.

Litter & Snack Lids Happen! Here’s How We Help Pick Up The Pieces

Posted on by Marc Ford

So, let’s kick things off with a story, because every great article needs a head-scratching, “Did that just happen?” moment. Picture this: my colleague, casually enjoying a morning stroll to work, spots a young lad and his mum leaving the shop. Nothing unusual, right? Until the child opens up his breakfast snack of choice, drops the lid straight on the floor like it’s an Olympic sport, and carries on. Now, my colleague, ever the upstanding citizen, kindly picks up the lid and says in gentle way, “I think you accidentally dropped this.” What follows? A tirade of abuse from the mum. Apparently, we’re in a 2024 where littering is fine now, and kindly pointing it out is not. Who knew?

Here’s the thing: parents leave a lasting mark on their children, and not just in these oddly public displays of litter chaos. Whether we like it or not, the way parents raise their children influences how these boys and girls, navigate the world as young adults – and how they’ll handle situations like, I don’t know, ‘dropping lids’ in public spaces. Parenting is this delicate balancing act, and the effects ripple through their kids’ emotional well-being, independence, relationships, and even their approach to life’s challenges. Let’s break it down, shall we?

 

Emotional Well-being and Self-Esteem: Put the Phone Down, Mum!

Here’s a fun fact: your kids are watching you all the time. Not in a creepy, “peek around the corner” way, but more in a “how does mum handle stress” or “does dad think I’m doing alright?” sort of way. If you’re the kind of parent who’s always present, showing up for the school plays (even if it’s 43 minutes of children awkwardly singing off-key), you’re building up your child’s emotional resilience. They feel valued, supported, and – dare we say – loved.

Now, let’s flip the coin. If you’re too busy scrolling through Instagram while your kid is practically defying gravity doing a double back summersault with a half pike on the monkey bars, that can send a different message: “I’m not that important.” Overly critical, neglectful, or emotionally distant parenting can turn into a cocktail of low self-esteem, adult insecurities, and that lovely trio of anxiety, depression, and relational chaos. So, maybe we should put the phone down once in a while? Your future emotionally stable adult will thank you

 

Independence and Decision-Making: You’ve Got to Let Them Fail Sometimes

Remember when you were 16 and wanted to make all your own decisions? Your parents probably stepped in with a mix of “sure, go for it” and “yeah, no way.” That balance is key. I genuinely had to remember that with my own lad, who’s now 21, 5 inches taller than me, built like a rugby player (and I swear he’s the milkman’s!). When parents find that sweet spot between letting their children make choices and providing just enough structure, they’re actually giving their young adults the tools to survive the big, bad world. These kids grow up knowing how to problem-solve and take responsibility – whether that’s paying rent or deciding whether to buy organic vegetables or stick with the trusty frozen pizza.

But, what about those parents who hover? The infamous “helicopter parents.” These kids might grow into young adults who panic at the thought of making their own decisions. It’s not that they don’t want independence; they’ve just never had the chance to practice it. You know, the kind of young adult who’ll call mum to ask if it’s okay to buy non-dairy milk. Overprotection might feel safe, but it’s a recipe for decision-making disasters later on.

 

Relationships: It’s Not All About the Love Songs

Here’s a juicy bit: the way you handle relationships as a parent sets the bar for how your child will manage their own relationships – romantic, professional, and otherwise. If you’re rocking the healthy communication, conflict resolution, and mutual respect in your home, chances are your kid will go into adulthood with a pretty solid idea of how to build meaningful relationships.

On the other hand, if your household looks more like a battleground where no one talks but everyone glares – yeah, that doesn’t go unnoticed. Those dysfunctions carry over, and suddenly your adult child is struggling with trust issues or can’t quite figure out why all their relationships feel a bit rocky. So, if you can, try not to let family dinners turn into passive-aggressive silence fests.

 

Academic and Career Success: Aim High, but Not Too High

Parental expectations are a double-edged sword. On the one side, if you’re involved in your child’s academic life, cheering them on and showing genuine interest in what they care about, they’re more likely to thrive. They’ll grow up ambitious, motivated, and ready to take on their careers with enthusiasm.

But here’s where it gets tricky: push too hard, and suddenly you’ve got a young adult who’s burnt out before they’ve even graduated. Maybe they’re chasing a career they don’t actually want, or they’re perpetually stressed trying to meet impossible standards. It’s a delicate line to walk, but finding the balance between encouraging ambition and respecting their unique interests is key. Otherwise, they’ll end up having that mid-life crisis at 24!

(I mean, I write this and read that nearly a quarter of students who received the result of ‘DDD’ for their A-Levels were awarded a first in their degree’s for the 2022-2023 year. LINK HERE to article. So like everything in this article, we’re all learning, every single day.)

 

Coping Mechanisms and Resilience: The Ultimate Life Skills

Life isn’t always rainbows and unicorns; it throws curveballs. So how parents react to stress is a massive lesson for their kids. If you’re a cool cucumber under pressure, your kids will probably pick up on that and learn to approach life’s challenges with a bit more grace. Maybe they won’t cry over spilled milk – or dropped lids.

But if your coping mechanisms are more “throw things and yell,” your children might inherit those lovely traits too. And suddenly, when they hit adult stress – whether it’s job rejection or a breakup – they might not have the healthiest toolbox to navigate it. It is something that happened to me, but I did become aware enough to not only change my own toolbox for coping, I took the step of talking to my boy about the mistakes that I had made so he could make better choices and understand their consequences. Teaching our children how to manage emotions, seek support, and be okay with failure? That’s parenting gold.

 

Parenting’s Legacy – No Pressure, Right?

Parenting is hard—no doubt about it. It’s not about getting everything perfect (because honestly, who has time for that?), but about recognizing that your choices, behaviours, and even your slip-ups along the way, shape the young people your children grow into. You’re building the framework for how they see the world, how they handle stress, make decisions, and form relationships.

This is where the YMCA steps in to support families and young people. Through its youth programs, mentorship opportunities, and community support, the YMCA provides that extra layer of guidance and care that complements the work parents are already doing. Whether it’s helping young people build self-esteem through sports, giving them a safe space to make decisions in leadership roles, or offering emotional support through counselling and wellbeing programs, the YMCA acts as a bridge for those moments when parenting has broken down or feels overwhelming.

While we may not have all the answers, the YMCA believes in the power of love, support, and autonomy to help young adults grow into confident, resilient individuals. After all, it’s not about sprinting to get it perfect – it’s about walking alongside families and young people, step by step, in their journey. There may not be medals for perfect parenting, but the YMCA makes sure there’s plenty of support, encouragement, and maybe a few extra lids for their snacks along the way.

It’s a marathon, not a sprint—but don’t worry, no one’s handing out medals for perfect parenting or the perfect, role model of a young adult. Just lids for their snacks.

World Mental Health Day: A Day of Reflection and Action for YMCA

Posted on by Marc Ford

October 10th marks ‘World Mental Health Day’, a day dedicated to raising awareness and encouraging open conversations about mental health. This year, the theme is more important than ever as mental health challenges continue to affect individuals and communities globally. At the YMCA, this day holds special significance or us, not only for the residents we support but also for the staff and colleagues who work tirelessly to create a nurturing and compassionate environment.

Why Mental Health Matters

Mental health is not just the absence of mental illness; it is the foundation of our well-being, influencing how we think, feel, and act. It affects our relationships, how we handle stress, and our ability to make decisions. Yet, despite its importance, mental health is often neglected or stigmatised. ‘World Mental Health Day’ reminds us that mental health is everyone’s concern, and it is vital to our overall health and happiness.

 

For YMCA Residents and Young People

For many residents at the YMCA Leiestershire, the journey toward better mental health is part of their personal growth and healing. Our YMCA is more than just a place to live; it is a safe space where individuals can access support, build resilience, and form meaningful connections. On ‘World Mental Health Day’, residents are encouraged to take time for self-care, reflect on their mental wellness, and engage in the programs and resources we offer.

 

Workshops, peer support groups, and mindfulness activities are just some of the ways we help residents manage their mental health. This day serves as a reminder that their struggles are seen, their voices are heard, and help is available. It’s a day to remind them they are not alone on their journey.

 

For our YMCA Staff and Colleagues

At YMCA Leiestershire, we recognise that mental health doesn’t just affect the people we serve  – it also impacts those who provide care and support. Working in such a people – centered organisation can be emotionally demanding, and it’s essential that our staff and colleagues prioritise their own mental health, too.

 

On this day, we encourage our team to pause and check in with themselves. How are they really feeling? Have they taken time to care for their own mental well-being? This is an opportunity for our staff to connect with one another, share their experiences, and support each other in maintaining a healthy work-life balance. The YMCA values a culture of care, and on ‘World Mental Health Day’, we highlight the importance of staff well-being as a core part of our mission.

 

Moving Forward Together

World Mental Health Day is more than just a day of awareness – it’s a call to action. For the YMCA community, this means continuing to break down the stigma around mental health, ensuring that both residents and staff feel supported, and creating spaces where people can seek help without fear of judgment.

As we commemorate this day, let’s remember that mental health is a journey, not a destination. Whether you are a resident, a staff member, or part of the larger YMCA family, your mental health matters, and together, we can create a future where mental well-being is prioritized for everyone.

 

Let’s make today a step forward in that journey.

𝐆𝐨𝐥𝐟 𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝐑𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐅𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐘𝐌𝐂𝐀

Posted on by Marc Ford

𝐆𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐠𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐔𝐊 𝐆𝐨𝐥𝐟 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝐑𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐅𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐘𝐌𝐂𝐀 𝐋𝐞𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐫𝐞

Thursday 27th June, marked a significant event for us with the inaugural Gallagher UK Golf Championship Day, successfully raising funds for YMCA Leicestershire. The day featured golf teams, raffles, and a Charity Auction, which all contributed to the YMCA cause.

The first ‘Overall Winners’ of the Gallagher UK Golf Championship were the team from Pride Consulting IMS , led by director Ryan Lunham, alongside teammates Matthew Powell , Michael Slattery, and Simon Knowles. Congratulations to the Pride Consulting team for their remarkable victory!

The 'Overall Winners' of the Gallagher UK Golf Championship were the team from Pride Consulting IMS for YMCA Leicestershire
The ‘Overall Winners’ of the Gallagher UK Golf Championship were the team from Pride Consulting IMS

Our ‘Nearest the Pin’ Winners, sponsored by Parallel Office and Document Solutions Ltd, Melita POS Ltd, Rock Kitchen Harris, and QFS Manufacturing Limited , were Ronan Homer and Mike Slattery, who each received a certificate and a ‘𝐆𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐁𝐚𝐥𝐥.’ Notably, Sam Armstrong won two ‘Nearest the Pin’ awards, earning two certificates and two ‘𝐆𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐁𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐬.’ (Please make up you own joke here…)

Our ‘Nearest the Pin’ Winners, sponsored by Parallel Office and Document Solutions Ltd for the Gallagher Golf Day for YMCA Leicestershire
Our ‘Nearest the Pin’ Winners, sponsored by Parallel Office and Document Solutions Ltd

The ‘𝐋𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐃𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐞’ sponsored by Ecclesiastical Insurance UK , was claimed by Luke Watson from RW WINDOWS LTD with an impressive monster of a drive that stood unchallenged. Luke, it’s your title to defend next year!

The ‘𝐋𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐃𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐞’ sponsored by Ecclesiastical Insurance UK for The YMCA Leicestershire Golf Day
The ‘𝐋𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐃𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐞’ sponsored by Ecclesiastical Insurance UK

The ‘𝐌𝐚𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡,’ awarded by PGA ‘AA’ Professional and Level III Coach Tony Westwood for outstanding putting prowess, went to Mick Reeves, a guest of Red Carpets Leicester.

The ‘𝐌𝐚𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡,’ awarded by PGA ‘AA’ Professional and Level III Coach Tony Westwood for YMCA Golf Day
The ‘𝐌𝐚𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡,’ awarded by PGA ‘AA’ Professional and Level III Coach Tony Westwood

Lastly, the ‘𝐖𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐒𝐩𝐨𝐨𝐧’ was humorously awarded to event founder and supporter Andrew Franks and his team, including YMCA Leicestershire Trustee David Glover, who opted to forgo scoring for the day… (that was the excuse given after 18 holes anyway!)

The ‘𝐖𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐒𝐩𝐨𝐨𝐧’ Award for the YMCA Leicestershire Golf Day
The ‘𝐖𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐒𝐩𝐨𝐨𝐧’ was humorously awarded to event founder and supporter Andrew Franks and his team.

The Gallagher UK Golf Championship Day was filled with great humour, and camaraderie and enjoyed a day full of good golf, bad golf, awful shots, over trees, under trees and wombling free (probably) and creating memorable moments.

Paul Brown, CEO of YMCA Leicestershire said, “The commitment of people to return next year speaks volumes about the event’s success and its support for one of Leicestershire’s oldest charities, the YMCA. So thank you to everyone for making this event a triumph for YMCA Leicestershire! We look forward to working with Gallagher UK to making an even bigger and better event next year!”

 

For more information on how you can help YMCA Leicestershire: JUST CLICK HERE!

 

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